June 20, 2011

Summer Project Update 06/20/11

Last week was busy and somewhat overwhelming. Sorry I didn't send an update. Here's a long update to make up for it. :)

* Please pray for jobs for two of our girls. The workplace is their primary ministry location, and it's a crucial part of Project. These two girls were promised jobs at a new restaurant that was to open today, so they've just been waiting to start. This morning they found out the restaurant has run into some problems and can't open, so they are now jobless. They spent time in prayer and have a great outlook, but it will probably be difficult to find jobs this late in the summer. They only have about six work weeks left, and there's a new wave of international students (who can stay through October) arriving right now.

* On June 11 we went to Assateague Island for a bonfire. We played games like ultimate frisbee and made human pyramids and ate s'mores. It was a lot of fun, but what was even better was the worship around the fire. Two student men came prepared to lead worship for about a half an hour. They ended up playing for an hour. It was beautiful to see the students connecting with the Lord and offering Him unhindered praise.

* The "honeymoon phase" of Project is coming to an end. As our director often reminds the students, the idiosyncrasies that are kind of cute at first start to wear on you and your patience starts to run out as the honeymoon ends. Pray for good conflict resolution and for patience and for humility in interpersonal interactions.

* Last Monday (June 13), over half of the Project went to the "Eastern European Coffee House" run by the European Campus Crusade for Christ staff. We outnumbered the international students two to one, but they didn't seem to mind. We played games and talked for a few hours. Our students gained understanding, compassion, and a better vision for reaching internationals. The internationals have developed deeper relationships with some of our students who frequent the coffee house. Pray the Lord would bridge cultural and linguistic barriers to shine His light into the hearts of students. Pray, too, that our students would continue to grow in their desire to reach the nations.

* Fun God story: I was praying for our Saturday afternoon sports outreach because the sports approach is not always fruitful. We can so easily be distracted by the fun and competition of the sports and forget to actually share the Gospel. So, I was sitting on my couch, praying the Lord would use the outreach well, when two young men came to my door. They live nearby and were hoping to use our wireless internet for free. I was reluctant to give that information away, as we use our landlord's wifi connection but invited them in anyway. We chatted while I looked for the internet password (which I couldn't find anyway.) I discovered that they're from Ukraine and invited them to join us on the beach in 15 minutes. I asked if they know "volleyball" and make a bump motion with my hands. One of the guys, Vlad, lit up and said he had been looking for people to play with him for two weeks. He joined us at the court on fourth street. I introduced him to some of our students, and one of the girls recognized him as a coworker. Vlad connected with several of our students and enjoyed playing volleyball with us even though the sand was painfully hot. After the game dispersed, our students asked Vlad and some others to do a photo survey (called Soularium). He answered the questions, but it was obvious that he thinks God is distant and uninterested. Pray for our students who work with Vlad - that they would develop authentic relationships with him. Pray also that He will see the love of Christ in them.

* Pray for wisdom as the staff team assigns leadership positions to students this week. Our desire is to recognize students who are already leading, students who are spiritually and socially mature, students who are walking intimately with the Lord, and students who are able to lead in the absence of staff for the rest of the summer. Some of the roles are already clear, but some are still foggy.

* Students are starting to live a lifestyle of evangelism! Not only do they do initiative evangelism during discipleship and relational evangelism at work and event evangelism on Saturdays (as if that weren't awesome enough), they often choose to use their free time to strike up conversations on the boardwalk. They get it. They see that living for Jesus includes stepping out in faith. They feel the urgency to tell people the Truth. They are willing to sacrifice comfort to make Jesus known.

* I'll write more in this month's Snapshot, but praise the Lord for His work in the women. I have really loved my role in giving direction to the women's ministry. I love writing talks and developing discussion questions and finding books and articles for reflection. It has been really fun to watch the women open up with each other and to see the chains of sin and shame fall away.

* My  mom still doesn't know what's going on in her body. She's spent the past two weeks visiting doctors, subjected to lots of testing. Right now the bleeding has stopped and it doesn't look like her cancer has come back (praise the Lord!), but they can't treat anything without a diagnosis. Please keep praying for her. She has mentioned God a few times in our conversations, but she doesn't quite get the Gospel yet. Oh! Another fun God story: my brother, Scott, plays baseball with a boy whose mom has M.S. too. She and her husband are Believers and shine Jesus brightly. She has invited my mom to join an M.S. support group at a local (biblical, healthy, growing) church. I am so excited about their friendship. Pray the Lord will use this woman to share with my mom in ways that I can't!

* I also had a really great conversation with my biological father on father's day. Since my parents' divorce in '86, he has floated in and out of my life. As an adult, I have sought to build a relationship with him and have come to really enjoy him. As we talked, I remembered the letter I wrote to him in the living room of one of the apartments in the Three Jacks last summer. I was here for a Project reunion and felt the overwhelming need to write him a letter of forgiveness. I shared the Gospel in the letter and forgot all about it until last night. I was shocked to hear that he had been at a Switchfoot concert this weekend. He knows they're a Christian band and thinks they're really good. He even met the band and talked with them. It turns out my dad is helping "Stand Up for Kids," an organization that works to protect street kids, by manning their booths at Switchfoot concerts this summer. Crazy. Pray that my dad's love of music and respect for musicians will open his heart to the Gospel. Pray the guys of Switchfoot will shine Christ's love and speak of His message of salvation boldly.

Thanks again for your prayers! We need them, and the Lord is answering them.

Summer Project Update 06/06/11

Since Summer Project is packed full of action, my goal is to send you a weekly update and prayer requests. The staff has already been here for two weeks, and the students are finishing out their first full week. We are now past the orientation weeks, and the regular weekly schedule started yesterday.

* The students all arrived safely last Tuesday. There are 11 guys living in two apartments and 19 girls in the other two apartments at the "Three Jacks." Praise the Lord, there hasn't been any roommate conflict yet. Please continue to pray for patience and understanding as the students are crammed into their apartments and have very little personal space (read: their only personal space is their bunk).

* Most of our students have found jobs, but some are still searching. Their jobs are their primary ministry locations, so pray that they would get jobs that allow them to interact with and build relationships with their coworkers. Pray for boldness in sharing why they're here for the summer and for wisdom in asking intentional questions.

* Our very first Project event was evangelism on the boardwalk. Some of the students were nervous, having never done surveys before, but they all had a willing attitude. The staff members paired their Bible studies up so that an experienced person went with an inexperienced or less experienced person. Before going out, we broke out into Bible studies and prayed. It was beautiful to see 30 college students seeking the Lord and stepping out in faith to make Him known. We did surveys on the boardwalk again on Saturday, and the students were excited. One group of girls got to share the Gospel with three college-aged women. They had the awesome privilege of seeing two of those women pray to receive Christ right then and there! The Project girls said they couldn't believe it. What a great way to start the summer!

* On Friday, the Bible studies broke off and shared their Life Stories (also known as Soul to Soul). It was a time when the staff and their 3-4 (same sex) students shared the details of their lives. Not only did they talk about the basic timeline and major events of their lives, they shared the most personal and intimate details, like what they struggle with most. Chains always fall off during this time as people bring sin into the light and begin the healing process. There's an understanding that the information shared is confidential, and the group bonds as a community in a way few people have ever experienced. That night at the cookout I could tell that the students felt more comfortable with each other. Women who had just met were suddenly as close as life-long friends. Praise the Lord!

* There are 5,000 international students living and working in OCMD this summer. Most of them (probably about 3,000) are Russian or Russian-speaking. The Lord has led Campus Crusade for Christ staff in Bulgaria and UIkraine (where Crusade is called "Agape") to bring some of their students here on an international Summer Project. All seven of their students speak Russian and will be living in an apartment complex with 60 other (non-Christian) Russian speaking students. Please pray for these staff and students as they pioneer and minister to the internationals here. Pray, too, that we would be able to partner with them in some creative and fun ways.

* On a personal note, I was involved in a minor car accident on Saturday. I felt an impression that I should slow down and stay alert even though I was obeying the speed limit. Then an SUV in the left lane tried to merge into my lane, crushing the right side of my car. I'm totally okay, and the damage seems to be superficial. I'm in the process of working out the report and repairs. I was shaken, but immediately went into ministry mode (thanks to the Holy Spirit). After I called to request an officer and an accident report, the other driver, Emily,  and I sat on the curb for at least 40 minutes. It may have been longer. In that time, Emily must have apologized ten times. I tried to reassure her that I was okay and that I wasn't going to treat her poorly for her mistake. She finally started to open up and tell me about herself. I got to tell her what I do and why I'm in OCMD for the summer. I didn't get to share the Gospel clearly, but I trust the Lord will use our conversation to nudge her closer to Him. Please pray for Emily!

* And on another personal note, I got a text from my dad this morning saying that my mom is in the hospital. She found out she has Multiple Sclerosis in April and has since been visiting lots of doctors and having lots of tests done. When I was home in May, I went with her to the MS specialist. That day she found out she also has Lyme Disease. Last night, she had some unexplained bleeding that got progressively worse. She was admitted to the hospital, and they are running a bunch of tests to find the source and the cause. She battled colon cancer from 2002 to 2004, so she thinks this bleeding may be somehow related. There are a lot of prayer requests in this situation. The obvious one is that the doctors would have wisdom to find the problem and treat it. A bigger request, though, is that my mom would (finally) come to know the Lord. He certainly has her attention, but her heart has been hard toward "religion" and faith issues my whole life. She shuts down when I try to talk about my job or my faith. Please pray that the Lord would speak through me and the other Christians in her life and draw her into a relationship with Himself. It breaks my heart to know that she doesn't live in the freedom of the Gospel. As you can probably guess, this news has been really distracting. Please also pray that my ministry here would not be negatively affected. I can already see the ways the Enemy is fighting for my thoughts.

Thank you for partnering with me and, by default, everyone on this Project. ?We're all thankful!

June 1, 2011

Greetings from Ocean City, MD

I want to share a fun answer-to-prayer story. Last night one of our students, a Chinese student from James Madison University, found out her ride fell through from Richmond, VA to Virginia Beach (where she was supposed to meet another Project student to ride to Ocean City). She was clearly upset, so my teammate Steph called her to help work out details. Several staff members prayed for the details to fall into place while others worked out some possible options. Here's how God answered those prayers: a recent JMU grad who lives in Richmond drove the Project student (whom she knows) to a bus stop in Richmond where she boarded a MegaBus with the ticket she bought for $1. She arrived in Hampton, VA (in the Virginia Beach area) in time to meet the other Project student. They made the last leg of the trip to Ocean City together and arrived right in the middle of the arrival period. Isn't it great to know that we can rely on God? And isn't sweet of Him to surprise us with things like $1 bus tickets? It's only the first day of Project, and big things are already happening!

Thank you for being a part of this crazy adventure! I'm excited to share more stories throughout the summer.
Blessings,
Kirstin
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